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Post by Sasha on May 29, 2009 12:45:29 GMT -6
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Post by yaffan362 on May 29, 2009 13:09:15 GMT -6
So that's what people think...
Your Stress Sources "Demands to be noticed by others as an important individual, needs attention and recognition. His current situation is leaving him dissatisfied. He feels he needs to make friends with those who hold the same high standards he does. Wants to stand out as someone at the top of his class and be admired by others. He needs to feel in control which makes it difficult to give of himself to another person. He feels isolated and alone but refuses to appear weak and continues to be emotionally distant from others in order to keep his attitude of superiority. "
Your Restrained Characteristics Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity. "Emotionally withdrawn, feels forced to make compromises which makes emotional attachments difficult." Giving more than he is getting back and feels misunderstood and unappreciated. Feels he is being forced into compromising and even his close relationships leave him feeling emotional distant. Current situation is leaving him doubtful and cautions about becoming intimately involved with others. Your Desired Objective "Has a strong desire to contribute and influence others, but it can make him restless. He is driven by his desires and hopes. Enjoys a wide range of activities, but he may spread himself to thin taking on too much."
Your Actual Problem "Fears he will be held back from achieving things he really wants, leading him to search endlessly for satisfaction and become involved in activities which are pointless."
Your Actual Problem #2 "Feeling unimportant in this current situation, and is looking for different conditions where he will be able to better prove his worth and importance."
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Post by Urban Bucket on May 29, 2009 13:15:45 GMT -6
Your Existing Situation Desires to be respected by others in order to gain their trust and support for her own personal gain
Your Stress Sources "Always trying to make a good impression on others, but doubtful she is succeeding. Feels she has the right to everything she hopes and dreams of and becomes annoyed and helpless when things don't go her way. Is troubled by the very thought of failure which leaves her feeling miserable. Always sees herself as the victim as if everyone treats her poorly and she never is given her fair share. Feels her failures are no fault of her own, but due to the shortcomings of others."
Your Restrained Characteristics Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.
"Seeking to broaden her horizons and believes her hopes and dreams are realistic. Worries she may not be able to do the things she wants and needs to escape to a peaceful, quiet environment in order to restore her confidence."
Current situation is leaving her doubtful and cautions about becoming intimately involved with others.
Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity.
Current situation is leaving her doubtful and cautions about becoming intimately involved with others.
Your Desired Objective "Needs peaceful surroundings. Looking for relief from stress, conflict, and arguments. Tries to control potentially harmful situations and arguments by treading lightly. Is sensitive, emotional, and has an eye for detail."
Your Actual Problem Lack of energy leaves her unnoticed to pursue further activities or demands placed on her. she feels powerless which leaves her agitated and depressed. Tries to escape from her struggles by searching for peaceful and restful conditions in which to relax and recover in an atmosphere full of security
Your Actual Problem #2 Disappointed because her hopes have not come to pass and she fears coming up with new goals will only lead to further disappointment. These conflicting emotions lead to a feeling of anxiety and depression. she tries to escape into a peaceful and calm relationship which offers encouragement and protection from further disappointment.
I won't comment on the results...
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Post by Sasha on May 29, 2009 17:04:49 GMT -6
My results
Your Existing Situation Is pretty laid-back and is able to act calm in almost any situation. she enjoys feeling relaxed and to be in the company of her friends and family.
Your Stress Sources "Feels as if she is in an impossible situation, she has lost the trust and respect of others and feels she is being treated unfairly and with no consideration whatsoever. she feels unappreciated which is bruising her self-esteem, but feels helpless to do anything about it. Feels misunderstood and alone, as if no one is willing to help her with the problems she faces. she needs constant attention and encouragement, but she is getting neither of those things and it is bringing her down. she needs to escape the situation, but feels helpless to do anything or make a decision toward a solution." Your Restrained Characteristics Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief. she is able to find pleasure and happiness in sexual activity.
"Seeking to broaden her horizons and believes her hopes and dreams are realistic. Worries she may not be able to do the things she wants and needs to escape to a peaceful, quiet environment in order to restore her confidence."
"Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief. she is able to find pleasure and happiness in sexual activity, as long as there is not a lot of conflict or emotional difficulty." Your Desired Objective "Feels she is in a hopeless situation, which causes her to feel depressed. she resists things which she finds difficult or not to her liking and shields herself from the things which irritate her. "
Your Actual Problem "Feeling tension and stress brought on by situations which are out of her control, leaves her feeling helpless, anxious, and in adequate. she tends to act out as a way of covering up her short comings and blames other people for her failures."
Your Actual Problem #2 "Her personality is such that she analyzes and examines everything with harsh judgment, which is viewed as an attitude of harsh criticism and disapproval. Fails to take into consideration all the facts when making her judgments. "
XP Wow... am I like that really?
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Post by lycanthra on Jun 1, 2009 11:26:02 GMT -6
Your Existing Situation "Is stubborn and strong-willed, once his mind is made up it is impossible to change it. He does not ask for much, so he feels when he does ask his needs should be met."
Your Stress Sources "Looking to stand out in the crowd and wanting to keep his rank and status. His current situation is irritating him because he can't seem to find anybody out there who values the same high standards he does. He is feeling isolated and wants to give in to his carnal urges, but can't bring himself to appear weak in the eyes of others. Wants others to see his unique qualities and character but can't stand to come off as needy, so instead he has an ""I don't care"" attitude and pushing people away. He turns his back on those who criticizes his behavior, but beneath his indifference is a person who is in desperate need of approval."
Your Restrained Characteristics "His desire to avoid open conflict and tension forces him to put his desires on hold, even though he is feeling restrained and uneasy."
Emotionally distant even from those closest to him.
Current situations have left him feeling overwhelmed and tormented. Needs to avoid further activity or demands and concentrate on relaxing and becoming emotionally sound.
Applies tough standards to his potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in his sex life.
His arrogance causes him to take offense quickly. Only those closest to him know deep down he is sensitive and sentimental. Your Desired Objective "Feels that nothing can upset him or phase him and is constantly trying to prove that to himself and others. Believes he is better than any weakness. As a result of his beliefs, he comes across as harsh or severe to those around him, with an overbearing and arrogant attitude."
Your Actual Problem "Has been disappointed and let down, believes it is pointless to come up with new goals as they will most likely disappoint as well. Needs to be recognized and respected, but is worried about the future. Reacts by avoiding situations where he will be criticizes or others will attempt to influence him. Tries to take charge of the situation by controlling the details and strengthen his position. "
Your Actual Problem #2 "Needs to be viewed and respected as an outstanding individual, in order to build his self-esteem and self-worth. Resists any type of weakness and sets high standards for himself."
This is just unfair and depressing... i dont think im like that... am i?
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Post by Lizzie on Feb 18, 2010 19:13:07 GMT -6
Your Existing Situation Desires to be respected by others in order to gain their trust and support for her own personal gain. Your Stress Sources "Feels empty and isolated from others and wishes to overcome this feeling. Believes life has more to offer her than what she was experienced thus far, and doesn't want to miss out on anything. she purses all her goals and dreams, fearful that any missed opportunity will cause her to miss out on even more. Quickly becomes an expert in any field she pursues and can sometimes come off as overbearing and nosy." Your Restrained Characteristics Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.
Feels unhappy and isolated because she is unable to succeed in finding the cooperation and understanding she desires.
"Feels she is not receiving her fair share and is unable to rely on anyone for support or sympathy. she keeps her emotions bottled up, leaving her quick to take offense to small things. she tries to make the best of her situation."
Feels unhappy and isolated because she is unable to succeed in finding the cooperation and understanding she desires. Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity Your Desired Objective "Feels stressed due to her current situation or relationships, and needs to make changes. Looking for a solution that will increase her chances of fulfilling her current hopes and dreams." Your Actual Problem "Fears she will be held back from achieving things she really wants, leading her to search endlessly for satisfaction and become involved in activities which are pointless." Your Actual Problem #2 "Feeling held back and restricted from moving forward, looking for a solution that will give her more freedom and less obstacles."
The italicized are all things that I feel are very close to the truth, but the others..I'm not quite sure about............It's depressing......
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Post by ~†~NekoRia~†~ on Feb 19, 2010 14:44:00 GMT -6
i cant do it yet u-u i dunt hav my laptop its in my stepdads office Dx<
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Post by yaffan362 on Feb 21, 2010 22:31:11 GMT -6
Your Existing Situation "Works hard and is actively pursuing his goals; however, he feels unappreciated and doesn't see any reward for his efforts."
Your Stress Sources "Wishes for freedom and independence, free from limitations and restrictions except for the ones he choices to give himself."
Your Restrained Characteristics "Feels he is carry more than his share of problems. He is flexible and laid back, sticking to his goals and working to overcome any difficulty."
Is satisfied and finds contentment through sexual activity. Your Desired Objective "Longs for a loving, caring, and supportive relationship, and fanaticizes of living in perfect harmony with others. Has a strong desire for tenderness and affection and enjoys things which are artistically pleasing to the eye."
Your Actual Problem Longs the freedom to make his own decisions and plans without the criticism and restrictions of others. Uses his charm to deal with others and get what he wants. -------------------------------- Just tried to take it again and got different, more accurate, results.....
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Post by Dakota on Feb 22, 2010 20:31:12 GMT -6
Your Existing Situation "Needs a peaceful and quiet environment. Desires an affectionate and faithful partner who will spoil him and treat him with importance. If he feels mistreated or a lack of attention, he may withdraw."
Your Stress Sources "Looking to stand out in the crowd and wanting to keep his rank and status. His current situation is irritating him because he can't seem to find anybody out there who values the same high standards he does. He is feeling isolated and wants to give in to his carnal urges, but can't bring himself to appear weak in the eyes of others. Wants others to see his unique qualities and character but can't stand to come off as needy, so instead he has an ""I don't care"" attitude and pushing people away. He turns his back on those who criticizes his behavior, but beneath his indifference is a person who is in desperate need of approval." Your Restrained Characteristics
"Emotionally withdrawn, feels forced to make compromises which makes emotional attachments difficult."
"Feels he is not receiving his fair share and is unable to rely on anyone for support or sympathy. He keeps his emotions bottled up, leaving him quick to take offense to small things. He tries to make the best of his situation."
Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief. He is able to find pleasure and happiness in sexual activity.
Is bothered when his needs and desires are misunderstood and he feels there is no one to turn to or rely on. His self-centered attitude can cause him to be easily offended.
Applies tough standards to his potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in his sex life.
Your Desired Objective Feels as if his hopes and dreams have been unfairly stomped on by others. Irritated and upset with his current situation which he feels is an insult to his true desires.
Your Actual Problem His desire to be respected and to stand out from the crowd is not being satisfied and therefore he is feeling anxious. His normal friendly self is being held back and he refuses to become involved or participate with others in normal day to day activities.
Your Actual Problem #2 "Inability to reach his goals, he is afraid to create or pursue new goals because he fears the rejection and let down they may cause him. He is feeling anxious and escapes by withdrawing into himself and protecting his emotions leaving him moody and depressed."
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